HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AFTER MY FAMILY SCREWED ME UP

(Because “I’ll just pick better next time” isn’t a strategy.)

Remember what it feels like when love is simple?
Notice it for a second.


You say what you mean. You don’t rehearse it ten different ways first.
They say something normal… and your body doesn’t brace like it’s about to get hit.
You can disagree without turning it into a trial. You can be close without disappearing.


That version of you isn’t “lucky.”
That’s you without the old program running the room.

Now let’s be honest about what’s been happening instead.

 

Someone you care about says something simple…

 

“We need to talk.”
“Are you okay?”
“I was just joking.”

 

…and your whole body goes on guard.

 

Chest tight. Mind starts building a case.
You hear yourself get sharp… or you go quiet… or you people-please… or you disappear.

 

Later you’re sitting there thinking: Why did I do that again?

 

You’re not broken. You’re just running a bad program.
And relationships are the place those old programs show up the loudest.

What you want… and what you’re scared of

You want love… but your nervous system keeps bracing for impact.


You want to stop repeating the same relationship rerun with different faces.
You want to stop overreacting and then hating yourself for it.
You want to stop shutting down and calling it “independence” when really it’s protection.
You want to have needs without feeling guilty for having them.
 

But you’re scared of what happens if you really change.
 

Because if you finally feel safe…
you won’t be able to blame the past anymore.
And that’s terrifying for a brain that’s used to surviving.
 

That’s not weakness.
That’s your nervous system doing what it learned to do.

Here’s why “communication skills” don’t fix it

Because you can learn the perfect script… and still get triggered when the old file runs:

 

“I’m not safe.”
“I’m not enough.”
“Love means pressure.”
“If I relax, something bad will happen.”

 

That’s the problem.

 

Your conscious mind wants a healthy relationship.
Your unconscious mind is checking your old files—memories, meanings, decisions—and trying to keep you inside what’s familiar.

 

Same old emotional movie.
Different season.

 

So we don’t just “cope better.”
We change the file your brain keeps pulling from.

$249 USD — one payment, yours forever.


10+ hours of training. Lifetime access. Self-paced.

A method you can use whenever your brain tries to pull the old rerun again.

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

$249.00

👉 I’m done paying for my past in my relationships — I’m ready to change the program.
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What this course is

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up is an online eutaptics® FasterEFT™ training that shows you how to reduce the emotional charge behind your triggers—so you can respond like an adult in the present, instead of reacting like the scared kid from the past.


This isn’t about blaming your family forever.
It’s about stopping your family’s programming from running your love life.
 

Because you can’t “pick better” consistently… if your brain keeps labeling chaos as familiar and familiar as safe.

 

What you’ll work through (in real life, not theory)

This course includes 10+ hours of video training designed to help you change what keeps replaying in your relationships.


You’ll work through things like:

 

The constant fighting — why the same argument keeps happening with different words, and how to collapse the trigger before it turns into World War III.

 

Old abuse bleeding into today — how your brain treats a raised voice today like the raised voice from years ago, and how to separate past from present.

 

Jealousy and control — whether you attract it or do it, we go after the fear file underneath it.

 

“We’re always on different pages” — why it’s not just communication, it’s two different programs colliding.

 

The same “type” you keep choosing — why your picker isn’t broken… it’s just checking old references for what “safe” looks like.

 

Long-distance worry and future-tripping — how to stop living in a mental disaster movie.

 

The real-world stuff couples fight about — family dynamics, finances, self-esteem issues, broken promises, sexlessness.

 

Q&A on relationship struggles and common “attraction programs.”

 

You also receive a special download of the Happy Journal and training on how to use it for relationship goals.

What you get inside this training

10+ hours of video training — I walk you through the process step by step.

  • Lifetime access — come back whenever life tries to pull the old rerun again.
  • Self-paced — no pressure, no deadlines.
  • Happy Journal download — and how to use it to install better emotional states on purpose.
  • A repeatable process — use it for love, family, boundaries, confidence, communication, and follow-through.

This isn’t “get hyped and hope.”
It’s: change the cause.

 

Your body isn’t keeping the score.
Your brain is. And your body is simply broadcasting it.


That means if you want real change, you can’t just keep chasing the body.


You have to update the programs in the brain that are telling your body what to do.


That’s exactly what this course is about.

REAL PEOPLE. REAL PROOF.

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China came in with the kind of background that teaches your nervous system one thing: stay on guard.

Her parents were drug addicts, and one of her “normal” memories was her dad holding a gun to her mom’s head. That’s not a story you “communicate through.” That’s a file your brain keeps pulling from when your partner says, “We need to talk.”


She said she’d tried everything—talk therapy, hypnotherapy, all of it—and still felt like there had to be something more. When she started clearing that memory, she described going back to it and realizing the emotional charge was gone, like her brain could still remember what happened, but it didn’t hijack her the same way. That’s what it looks like when the old family program stops running the room.

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Jason — the kind of anger that scares you… and the moment it started to loosen.

Jason talked about family pain, an alcoholic brother, and anger so intense he said there were times he could’ve “picked him up [and] chucked him over a wall.” That’s not “bad character.” That’s a nervous system running old survival programs.

 

And then he described what he actually did: he would get away, think about his brother on purpose, raise it, tap it down, and do it again… and again… until the intensity dropped. He said it wasn’t gone, but it was nowhere near what it was—and he started learning how to “flip” the memory so the same triggers didn’t keep reoccurring the same way.

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Christin hit rock bottom in a way most people don’t talk about out loud. 

She had a stroke, lay in a hospital bed not knowing if she would live, and what she faced wasn’t just fear—it was regret and self-hatred so deep she said she’d hated herself her whole life. Her pit wasn’t a bad day. Her pit was suicidal depression and the feeling that her life had no purpose.


She made a promise: “If I live, I’m going to do it different,” but she didn’t know how. After she finally let someone tap with her, she described that as the day her life began to change—because now she can stand in front of a room, speak, connect, and say something she couldn’t say before: “I love my life. I love myself.” That’s not motivational talk. That’s a program change.


That’s why this training matters. When the family file changes, your relationship reactions change—because you stop responding like the past is happening now.

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The part nobody taught you

Your “relationship style” isn’t who you are. It’s what you learned.


Over time, you collected mental snapshots:
what love looks like
what conflict means
what you have to do to be chosen
what you have to tolerate to not be abandoned

 

Those snapshots become the blueprint.
Then you grow up and wonder why you keep repeating the same pain.

 

This course is about changing the blueprint.

 

Or said another way:

 

You’re not broken — you’re just running a bad program.
And programs can be changed.

Two stories. Same time passes.

Twelve months from now, you'll be telling yourself a story.

Story #1:

You're sitting across from someone new. They say something small — "We need to talk," "Are you okay?" — and your chest tightens like it always does. Your mind starts racing, building the case, scanning for danger, and you hear yourself do the sharp thing… or the quiet thing… or the pleasing thing… again.
 

Later you're in your car staring at the steering wheel thinking, Why do I keep doing this?
Different person. Same emotional movie.
You'll have spent the year doing what you've always done: managing triggers, explaining your pain, apologizing for your reactions, promising yourself you'll "do better next time." You'll keep trying to control the outside so you don't have to feel what's on the inside. You'll call it "working on yourself," but it will feel like surviving.

Story #2:
The same trigger happens. Same words. Same situation.
 

And your body starts to react — but you notice it.
You don't obey it. You don't fight it. You don't stuff it.
 

You tap it down, update the file, and the old program doesn't get to drive the conversation anymore. You respond like the adult you are now — not the scared kid your nervous system keeps dragging into the room.
 

Life didn't get perfect. But you stopped living from old pain.
The shame loop quiets down. The need to prove, defend, or disappear loosens. You can feel the trigger start… and you can stay present anyway.
 

Not perfect. But free.
 

Same 365 days. Two completely different stories.
Which one do you want to be telling?

$249 USD — one payment, yours forever.


10+ hours of training. Lifetime access. Self-paced.

A method you can use whenever your brain tries to pull the old rerun again.

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

$249.00

👉 I’m done paying for my past in my relationships — I’m ready to change the program.

Price & access


$249 USD — one payment, yours forever.


10+ hours of training. Lifetime access. Self-paced.
A method you can use whenever your brain tries to pull the old rerun again.

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

$249.00

Educational note

This is an educational self-help approach focused on stress, memories, and emotional patterns. It does not diagnose, treat, or cure medical or mental health conditions. It does not replace appropriate medical or mental health care. Please work with your doctors/therapists as needed.
Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

Healthy Relationships After My Family Screwed Me Up

$249.00

👉 I’m done paying for my past in my relationships — I’m ready to change the program.