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WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER IN THIS WORKSHOP:

PARENT RELATIONSHIPS: WHERE THE PATTERN STARTED

The truth nobody wants to face: Your first relationships are still running all the others.

  • If your mother was critical: Why you keep choosing partners who make you feel like you're never good enough—and how that program installed "love = earning approval you'll never get"
  • If your father was distant: Why emotionally unavailable partners feel like love, and why the people who actually show up feel "boring" or wrong
  • If a parent was controlling: Why you keep losing yourself in relationships, and how "shrinking to keep the peace" became your survival strategy
  • If a parent was narcissistic: Why your needs always come last, and how you learned to perform for love instead of just being loved
  • If a parent was angry or explosive: Why you walk on eggshells in every relationship, managing other people's moods to stay safe
  • If a parent abandoned you: Why you cling to relationships that hurt you, or sabotage the good ones before they can leave you first

We'll show you exactly how these early patterns installed the relationship program your brain is still running—and how to update it.

SIBLING RELATIONSHIPS: THE ROLES YOU LEARNED

Your siblings didn't just share your childhood. They taught you who you are in relationships.

  • If you had a mean or bullying sibling: Why you normalize disrespect, mockery, and cruelty in friendships and romantic relationships—because "that's just how they are"
  • If you were the scapegoat: Why blame always lands on you, why you apologize for things that aren't your fault, and why you attract people who need someone to hold responsible
  • If you were the parentified child: Why you're exhausted in every relationship, always fixing, saving, managing—because your worth became tied to what you could do for others
  • If you were ignored or invisible: Why you settle for crumbs of attention and over-give just to be seen, noticed, remembered
  • If you had a competitive sibling: Why relationships feel like contests you're always losing, and why celebrating yourself comes with guilt

We'll identify the role you played in your family—and why you keep playing it in every relationship since.

ROMANTIC PATTERNS: WHAT KEEPS REPEATING

Same person. Different face. You've been here before.

  • Why you're drawn to emotionally unavailable partners—and why available people feel wrong, boring, or like a trap
  • Why you keep choosing people who criticize, control, or correct you—and how you confuse control with care
  • Why you're attracted to "projects"—people who need fixing, saving, or managing—and why you believe if you love them enough, they'll finally change
  • Why you keep choosing people who leave, cheat, or betray—and how abandonment wounds create self-fulfilling prophecies
  • Why you sabotage the good ones—pushing away people who treat you well because healthy love feels unsafe when dysfunction feels like home

We'll break down the exact mechanism that makes you choose what's familiar instead of what's healthy—and how to stop running the old program.

SELF-RELATIONSHIP: HOW YOU TREAT YOURSELF

The relationship you have with yourself is the blueprint for every other relationship.

  • The "never good enough" program: How childhood messages installed the belief that you have to earn love, prove your worth, and apologize for existing
  • People-pleasing as survival: Why saying "no" feels dangerous, why you abandon yourself to avoid abandonment, and why boundaries feel like cruelty
  • Manifesting what you saw, not what you want: Why your nervous system seeks familiar (not healthy), and how you keep recreating your parents' relationship without realizing it
  • Walking on eggshells: How volatile homes taught you to manage other people's moods, scan for danger constantly, and freeze when tension rises

We'll show you how the way you were treated became the way you treat yourself—and how that keeps you stuck in the same patterns.

FRIENDSHIP PATTERNS: IT'S NOT JUST ROMANTIC

The same programs run in friendships, too.

  • Why your friendships are one-sided: You're always the listener, the supporter, the one who shows up—but nobody shows up for you
  • Why you attract friends who use you: People who only call when they need something, because you learned that being needed = being loved
  • Why you can't address conflict: You stuff resentment to keep the peace, then either explode or ghost when it gets too heavy

We'll uncover why you keep choosing the same friendship dynamics—and how to stop being the caretaker in every relationship.

WORK RELATIONSHIPS: THE PATTERN SHOWS UP HERE TOO

Your childhood doesn't just affect romance. It affects how you work.

  • Why you keep choosing bosses like your parents: Critical, demanding, impossible-to-please authority figures who recreate the childhood dynamic
  • Why you can't set boundaries at work: You say yes to everything, burn out, and work yourself to exhaustion—because "good employee" = "good child" in your nervous system
  • Why you prove your worth through overwork: Just like you did at home

We'll connect the dots between your family roles and your work patterns—and show you how to stop recreating your childhood at the office.

THE CORE REVELATION:

You're not attracting the same person because you have bad judgment.


You're attracting the same person because your nervous system is looking for what it knows—and what it knows came from your first relationships.


Your brain is using old programs to decide:

  • What love looks like
  • What you deserve
  • What's safe and what's dangerous
  • Who to trust and who to run from

And until those files update, you'll keep casting the same people in different bodies.

REAL PEOPLE. REAL TRANSFORMATIONS.

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— Richard | UK | Stayed Out of Relationships for 40 Years Due to Guilt and Fear

"I stayed out of relationships for nearly 40 years. When I looked back, I realized there was something I hadn't cleaned up from my first relationship. This lady got pregnant, and I pushed her to have an abortion. I felt so guilty. I saw her afterward, and she looked so beautiful, and I felt like... I was the bad guy in that picture.


After the session with Robert, something shifted. 'I forgive myself. It's safe to let it go. I did the best I could.' And at 44, I realized: Thank God I can grow up now. I'm an emotionally intelligent guy. It's okay to have love in my life, because I'm a good guy. I hold up to my emotions, I tap away the issues, and I change."
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— Anonymous | Pattern of Choosing Partners Who Take Advantage

"Financial devastation wrapped around relationships. I'd only pick guys who would take my money and leave me high and dry. My husband died 17 years ago, and I went into bankruptcy. But it went back further—my mom was bipolar, kind of crazy. I didn't want to be like her, so I tried to be like my dad.


But here's what Robert showed me: I was just like my mother. I was cold-hearted. I'd push people away, keep them at a distance. They'd want to know me, but I was cold, and then they'd become cold and take from me. I was afraid they'd find out who I really was and dump me. I kept everyone away.


After the work, Robert asked me to imagine a new relationship—one that's totally different. At first, I felt anxiety, tightness in my stomach. But then it shifted to excitement, anticipation. I'm looking forward to it. I paid my dues to the bad stuff. I know how it works. I can leave it behind. I'm ready."
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— Yvonne & Jürgen | Married 40 Years | Germany

"My wife and I have what seems to be two lives—the first life before we knew FasterEFT, and our second life with FasterEFT. And it's much greater than the life before. It's an amazing life.


From age 19 on, I had sessions of psychotherapy—not because I was curious, but because I was suffering all the time. I tried a lot of stuff. Everything helped a little, but you can't compare it to FasterEFT. It's nothing else I have ever experienced.


I'm not depressed any longer. I don't have pain. My whole life was anxiety. Now I'm happy. I live a happy life."
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WHAT THIS WORKSHOP CHANGES:

Over 4 live Sundays, we go straight after the emotional programs running your relationship patterns. Not with insight alone, but by changing the memories, meanings, and decisions your brain is using as proof.

You'll learn:

  • How to identify which parent or sibling installed the pattern you're repeating
  • How to tap on the specific childhood memories that created the relationship program
  • How to update the files so your nervous system stops seeking what's familiar and starts recognizing what's healthy
  • How to stop sabotaging good relationships because your brain thinks they're dangerous
  • How to become the kind of person who chooses differently—not through willpower, but through changing the program at the root

This isn't theory. This is live work. You'll tap along as we target the exact emotional files that keep the pattern running.

WHO THIS IS FOR:

This workshop is for you if:

  • You keep attracting the same type of person (different face, same pain)
  • You know your childhood affects your relationships, but you don't know how to change it
  • You've tried therapy, self-help, affirmations—and the pattern still repeats
  • You sabotage good relationships because healthy feels wrong
  • You're exhausted from walking on eggshells, over-giving, or losing yourself
  • You're ready to stop recreating your parents' relationship in your own life
February Workshop: Why Your Relationships Keep Repeating The Same Pattern | Sundays, February 1,8, 15, 22 2026

4 Live Sundays
12:00pm - 3:00pm CST
February 1, 8, 15, 22, 2026

$299.00
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Each session includes:

Live teaching on the relationship programs

Real-time tapping demonstrations

Group tap-alongs (you participate from home)

Q&A and practical application

Can't make it live? All sessions are recorded and available for replay.

INVESTMENT:

$299 USD
One payment. Immediate access to all 4 live sessions + recordings.

IMPORTANT NOTE

This is an educational self-help workshop focused on emotional patterns, learned behaviors, and stress responses in relationships. It does not diagnose, treat, or cure medical or mental health conditions, and it does not replace therapy, counseling, or professional mental health care. If you are in an abusive relationship or experiencing safety concerns, please seek qualified professional support and emergency services. Individual experiences vary and no specific outcome can be guaranteed.