The Power of Letting Go
Have you ever blamed someone and held onto it for many years? We often go about our daily lives, blaming others. Sadly, we may do this without realizing it. Sometimes in life, we tend to blame other people when we are hurt, upset, or sick. To live more emotionally healthily, we must learn to take personal responsibility. It's key to know when and how to do it.
Each week, we hold Tap-Along sessions at the Skills To Change Institute. Participants can volunteer to express their emotional grievances with Robert Gene. There are two Tap-Along sessions. One is for US participants in those time zones. The other is for international participants in different time zones. In our International Tap-Alongs, we have participants from many different countries. These countries range from the United Kingdom, the Netherlands, Germany, India, Canada, and Australia.
In this Story of Transformation, we follow Jane, a United Kingdom resident who has been part of the eutaptics® FasterEFT™ program for about a year now. Jane volunteered to share her story with Robert Gene and the group. She told Robert that she felt like many times in her life beautiful things were taken from her. Jane recalled a childhood memory that had been troubling her. She had been angry at her father for so long. But she recently learned the truth. Jane loves nature; she grew up in a forest with lots of trees. One summer, after she was away from home, she returned to find someone had removed all the trees around her house. Jane was devastated that all of her trees were gone. She was hurt, sad, and angry at her father for removing the trees, and she held this resentment towards her father for a very long time. Jane spoke about how once the trees were removed she felt more vulnerable and exposed in her own home. This feeling of unsafe vulnerability stuck with Jane her entire life. She talked about how in her current home she has many windows and how she even feels exposed there.
Many years later, Jane was discussing the trees being removed with her sister. Jane’s sister told her that she was wrong to blame her father and that the person who removed the trees was their neighbor. Jane told the group that her neighbor was very abusive towards his wife to the point that they would often hear them next door. So, when Jane’s sister told her that it was the neighbor, she felt heartbroken because she had spent so long blaming her father for the incident. Robert Gene then took over and expressed to Jane that it was not her father's fault; it was her abusive neighbor's. He used eutaptics® FasterEFT™ to help her reprogram her mind. It lets Jane release her bad memories of her father. Jane recalled her sister saying their parents were upset with the neighbors. It was in a contract that the neighbors could not remove the trees. After going through the eutaptics® FasterEFT™ with Robert Gene, Jane felt warmer towards her father. She remembered more happy memories with him.
Jane also expressed how, when she gets overwhelmed with her emotions, she locks her mind inside a deep, dark hole to try to escape the emotions. Jane said that the abusive neighbor triggered memories of past abuse she had witnessed. Jane talked about how her sister was abused by teachers in school, as well as when she was a teacher and witnessed her principal choke one of her students. She felt sickened by these memories; she blamed herself and other people. These memories took a negative toll on her mind, and she felt trapped in a hole.
Robert Gene then guided Jane in eutaptics® FasterEFT™. It helped her release memories of the abuse she had witnessed. Robert helped Jane see that her past memories caused her negative thoughts. He showed her it was all in the past and not to blame anyone. This allowed Jane to feel relief and happiness and even achieve a smile.
Robert Gene’s training changes people's lives one step at a time. Robert guides each volunteer in the weekly Tap-Along. He uses a step-by-step process to elicit their emotional strategy. He helps them see that their stress is a facade. The real problem is emotional escapism. I am sure there are issues you may face on a daily basis that cause stress or emotional tension in relationships. The process Robert Gene created can be done quickly and anywhere. If you want to change your life, visit our website. We offer courses for issues like PTSD, weight loss, stress, abuse, and anxiety. If you want to attend a Tap-Along on our website, we offer month-long packages. They provide access to four sessions in a single month.
We only have one life, so make the changes now to improve your mind in order to live happier and healthier. If you do not make these changes, you risk living with stress, emotional struggles, and an unhappy feeling that can affect your growth in life.
As Robert Gene has said, “The quality of your life is determined by the quality of the memories you hold. Change your memories and you will change your life.”
Resources to help you get started with eutaptics® FasterEFT™:
- FREE 5-Day eutaptics® FasterEFT™ Course
- Making Peace with Grief and Loss
- Transform Your Relationships
Skills to Change Institute - Robert Gene eutaptics® FasterEFT™ – Skills To Change Institute
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